She is deceptive, desperate, and dangerous, this young woman who is very
experienced when it comes to dating older men will act as gentle as a lamb
on a good day, and as deadly as a viper on her bad days. A beautiful woman,
who stands out from the crowd, is one that most men wouldn't pass up if
given a chance to date her. The rich man has won himself a trophy piece,
at least so he thinks, until his sweetheart wipes her feet off on his heart
one day while running away with her gifts in tote.
There are young women who aren't the type who fit the typical stereotype
of what one thinks a young woman is such as: "dumb, gullible, and a
gold-digger." Before she even thinks about the gold, she knows she
has to obtain and use the tools necessary to get it. But for some young
female players, money isn't always what she is seeking, sometimes her connecting
to a rich, older man is a power move.
It doesn't matter what the rich man looks like--fat, spotted, wrinkled,
or scary, the young opportunist just needs a tad-bit of support to help
her cross the bridge of her life wherever it might take her. So for some,
this is why the rich man is a target. Do you truly know the company that
you keep? There are some circles the young woman might not be able to get
into without her mature partner. In addition, there are professionals she
would like to meet in an effort to build up her career that her friend knows.
Maybe times are hard and she needs a temporary boost, so she knows just
the man who will give it to her--like that rich old guy who showed an interest
in her online for starters.
The young woman is very much aware that it is mandatory she charm her older
lover, at least for a time, before trading him in for the hot young guy
who has eyes for her. So she will do the kind of things to draw her rich,
older man near to her. In time, when she has this man in the palm of her
hand, she will then live out her fantasies with the young, sexy guy she
met at one of those stuffy functions she attended with her older beau.
A rich, older man who is oblivious to a young female player will get played
like a fiddle if he isn't too careful.
1. She strokes his ego.
Some young women are so obvious that they aren't interested in their older
dates, but they sure know how to act like they are! If you know her well,
you know that all the flattery she is dishing on that old guy is nothing
more than her working him over until all he thinks about is her and all
he wants to be with is her.
2. She works hard to appear like she is the perfect catch.
Whatever he likes, she is okay with it. But once again, those who know her
well might comment how she doesn't like this meal, that snack, or that place.
But in front of her older date, she has new interests that tend to center
around him, "I like that…I love this!" she proclaims. Sure,
right.
3. She tells him often how much she loves him.
Has she even dated him long enough to know that she likes him, much less,
love him? But the gullible, rich man will believe whatever the pretty young
woman says as long as she keeps delivering whatever he asks of her. If she
starts rejecting her older date, he will suspect something and might lose
interest--she doesn't want that to happen! "I'm so sorry, I love you
so much, honey!" she says.
4. She is very affectionate to the point that it can be a bit irritating.
How much public display of affection is too much? A skeptical public looks
at the young lady and then at her date and back at the old fellow, "Are
they for real?" witnesses think. "He is so old! She is so young!"
The young woman knows they are watching so she puts on a better show for
all to see. "Did we just see her put her tongue in his mouth and he
pat her butt?" someone remarks from the crowd.
5. She is uninhibited when it comes to having sex with him.
A rich man doesn't mind a freak in the bed, if anything, he encourages his
young plaything to let it all out, and she does. But what he doesn't know
is that if the deceptive woman doesn't want to get close to him emotionally,
she holds back. Did she really let it all out? The last thing this lady
wants is to be so connected to the rich man that she would start to desire
marriage and babies. Dreams of a family are out of the question for a female
player who isn't ready to stop playing games.
6. She shares her problems in a way that moves the rich man to want to
come save her.
From tears to fears, whatever she knows will weaken him emotionally, spiritually,
or physically, she is going to pour it on. At some point, he is going to
help her with her car, the rent, her business, and whatever other needs
she presents to him. While the wealthy, older man is taking care of her
material needs, the hot guy is doing things for her physically and possibly
financially too.
Young female players don't have a certain look, style of dress, talk, or
anything that right away stands out where you can point a finger and say,
"You are a player, stay away from me!" Sure, there are those gold-digger
types that are obviously looking for gold, but a player is looking for a
little more than gold and when she strikes it rich, look out! Some wealthy
businessmen have enemies, others have weaknesses for pretty faces. Therefore,
when a young female player knows one's flaws, she is going to use them to
her advantage. A rich, older man must watch, not only his money, but his
heart, reputation, business, and back because he never knows who might have
sent a young female player to play him.
